Future Fathers: Dating and support for gay men planning for parenthood

This website here is my baby!  I hope to provide a service to many men out there who are  seeking to start their own families.  And, of course, I'd like to find the same for myself.

I see myself adopting two boys--I don't know why that's the picture I have.  I'd like to adopt within the next ten years (which means I hope to be coupled up within that time, too).  A friend of mine was adopted as a teenager, so I'm trying to learn from her what that is like, but a strong part of me would prefer to adopt an infant or toddler.  I just like the idea that the child would only know life with me and my partner.

I'm an artist by trade.  Thanks to the recession, I'm between jobs, but I still have my art career, and, of course, I have Future Fathers to keep me busy.  I love long walks, reading, coffee houses, watching football (on TV) and baseball (preferably live), and hanging out with my friends (this is very important to me)

Books:  I'll list authors and make it easy on myself: Chaim Potok, EL Doctorow, Walter Kirn, Douglas Coupland, Karen Armstrong, many more

Movies: Oh, boy, again, long list.  My favourites are Good Will Hunting, Breakfast at Tiffany's, LOTR, the Spider-Man and X-Men movies, and just so many more.  I prefer smart comedies (think Wes Anderson) and drama.  No horror movies for me!

TV: I don't really watch TV anymore.  I do catch up some faves, like The Simpsons, online.  But I do watch the NFL during the football season--this is a big ritual for me.

I listen to practically everything except country and gospel.  I have a huge variety in my Pandora stations: pop, rock, jazz, New Age, classical, and more.

I've been told that I'm a little surprising, that my second impression reveals a lot more about me than my first. And I really don't think I really learn much about a guy from a first date, so I'd prefer to go out 2-4 times to get a proper read of each other.